”Good relationships just don’t happen. They take time, patience and two people who want to be together.”
Keeping a relationship healthy and happy over time takes time and energy. It is wonderful when a couple in a troubled relationship is able to recognize and jointly work out their differences. This process is not always easy, however. Once problems have started to become chronic, emotional disconnect builds and compromise can often feel unsafe. In such cases, the safe and protected counseling offered by a marital or couples therapist can make the difference between a marriage that survives versus one that thrives!
Take the first step towards healing by reaching out to a licensed mental health professional today. Our compassionate therapists are here to support and guide you towards a happier, healthier life. Contact us now to schedule your first appointment.
Visit our staff page and easily find a therapist that aligns with your unique needs and preferences.
The experienced therapists at Fox Valley Institute teach you how to view your relationship differently, and how to manage those times when it feels like you are going through the white water rapids and life seems unmanageable.
Relationships ebb and flow like a river. Sometimes they are fast and exciting. Sometimes they meander and move very slowly; and sometimes they are like raging, troublesome waters. The counselors at Fox Valley Institute give each couple (or individual) hope for a partnership that will be different than it was before they came in to see us.
We help you with information backed by research that will educate you and your spouse concerning:
“The ‘honeymoon’ phase in any committed relationship is not meant to last; eventually it becomes obvious that sharing life with another person requires a special set of skills. Most couples start to come apart because our culture doesn’t teach us how to maintain and strengthen these skills.”
I can name my partner’s best friends.
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I know what stresses my partner is currently facing.
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I know the names of some of the people who have been irritating my partner lately.
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I can tell you some of my partner’s life dreams.
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I can tell you about my partner’s basic philosophy of life.
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I can list the relatives my partner likes the least.
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I feel that my partner knows me pretty well.
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When we are apart, I often think fondly of my partner.
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I often touch or kiss my partner affectionately.
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My partner really respects me.
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There is fire and passion in this relationship.
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Romance is definitely still part of our relationship.
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My partner appreciates the things I do in this relationship.
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My partner generally likes my personality.
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Our sex life is mostly satisfying.
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At the end of the day my partner is glad to see me.
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My partner is one of my best friends.
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We just love talking to each other.
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There is lots of give and take (both people have influence) in our discussions.
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My partner listens respectfully, even when we disagree.
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My partner is usually a great help as a problem solver.
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We generally mesh well on basic values and goals in life.
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Our therapists understand that each child and family unit is unique, so therapy will be customized to best fit your needs. In addition, for your convenience we offer after school and weekend appointments.
Connect with our experienced Naperville couples counseling therapists. Start strengthening your relationship today.
FVI offers a listening ear without judgement and helps me understand what my options are to move forward in a positive way. The counseling is compassionate but at the same time constructive so you feel like you’re actually making progress toward your goals!
- H. L.
One of my worries of going to see a new therapist is whether or not I will be able to connect with them. From my very first visit, FVI was able to help me understand and see things that were getting in my way, including myself at times. From the calming and private atmosphere the waiting room provides to the office staff, Fox Valley Institute really helps to make me feel comfortable.
- A. H.
I cannot express in words how much these sessions have changed my life. My outlook on life is brighter; my self confidence and self-esteem are stronger; and best of all, I know that whatever life throws my way I can handle it. Thank you FVI!
- A. T.
FVI has encouraged and guided me, sat through tons of tears, and has also made me laugh really hard! In their way, they have helped me to see that life is sometimes difficult, but that I can handle it – and that what happens to me on good and bad days, does not define who I am. We all have a journey in this world. I’m learning to live it, with an empowering truth and strength, one day at a time.
- P. M.
With FVI's guidance and the practical tools they gave me, I was able to make it through one of the hardest times in my life. I also learned valuable lessons about myself and about healthy relationships. I continue to use these lessons and tools on a regular basis, both in my own personal and my professional life. I am so grateful for FVI and the role they played throughout this process. I would recommend anyone to them, and in fact I do send people to them on a regular basis.
- K. G.
I was really afraid of taking this step. I am 43 years old and have been a part of the firefighter culture of shouldering your burdens my whole life. I realize now that true strength is not in shouldering my burden, but in letting go and asking for help. I was able to open up to FVI simply because I saw that they truly cared. They have always been available to me in the times when my life was the hardest. I trust them completely.
- M. O.
Each time I left the office, I felt stronger and able to tackle my issues head on. More importantly, when I left our sessions, I thought about everything that was discussed and the great tools that he gave me to use, and was able to apply them to my situation. He more than once gave me material to read/study/links and we would talk about it during our next session to re-enforce the objectives, which was so helpful.
- N. R.
Licensed couples therapists in Naperville helping partners strengthen relationships and overcome challenges.
Marriage counseling focuses on:
Couples therapy addresses:
Our approach includes:
As experienced, licensed and professional therapists, our goal is to help you resolve your challenges. Our door is always open to help you through any crisis.
Our office is located at 640 N River Rd #108
We understand that making this type of request is often a difficult step, so we will do our best to guide you through the process.
Your contact will be handled by one of our Client Care Specialists. Once we connect with you, we will ask you for some information. Questions may include:
How can we help?
What is your availability for an appointment time?
What is your health insurance?
Once your appointment is scheduled, you will be sent an email confirmation with new client paperwork.
Call us at 630-718-0717 ext. 240 or email us at clientcare@fvinstitute.com.